Sam Smith Announces New Pronouns Of ‘They’ And ‘Them’

Sam SmithSam Smith recently came out publicly as non-binary, revealing to fans that they do define themselves exclusively as masculine or feminine. On Friday, Smith added they were “at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non-binary,” but they couldn’t wait for the day that they are.

Sam Smith was a powerhouse last night at MSG. I have been in the music business for quite some time now and I can honestly say I have never been witness to such pure talent on stage. His vocal performance put shame to whats been recorded and his band behind him was a driving force unmatched. From start to finish it was a mesmerizing experience, and might I add, Disclosure showing up was a pleasant surprise. I look forward to what might be next for Mr. Smith and how he may plan to grace the music industry in the future.

The delay, however, had done nothing to damage their appeal. Critical reaction to the single was overwhelmingly positive and the track became their sixth UK chart-topper, while hitting No.4 in the US. It was just the sort of launch The Thrill Of It All needed, setting the album up to shift over four million copies worldwide to date.

When queer people use gender-neutral pronouns, we aren’t trying to confuse people or make their lives difficult. We’re simply asking for the small acknowledgement that identity does not stop at his and hers, just as facial hair does not define manhood.


Sam Smith is a gender nonbinary individual This means Smith uses pronouns that are gender neutral: they, them, theirs. It’s not a particularly difficult concept, but the singer has continued to face pushback from fans and members of the media who are either unable or unwilling to accept Smith’s identity.

Smith won four Grammy awards in 2015 after releasing debut studio album In The Lonely Hour about unrequited love. Today, some LGBT people are saying that this spotlight on non-binary lives is exactly what the community has needed.


Smith has stumbled plenty of times as they tried to talk as effectively about queer history as their music does about loneliness But each time, Smith picks themself back up and made the same pledge: they’re going to learn; they’re going to educate themself; they’re going to be better.

The English “Too Good at Goodbyes” singer was met with thousands of mostly supportive comments, along with some detractors who questioned the need to change pronouns, an increasingly common practice both within and outside of the LGBTQ community.

First of March I went to see Sam Smith at Forest National, Brussels. I really liked Sam his way of performing and his voice has a great sound, although I have some things to say that made this concert experience a bit less enjoying as I thought it would be.

In Smith’s instance, they are both gay and gender nonbinary. And both of those labels are among the many used to describe a broad range of sexualities and genders that still aren’t really considered normal by today’s mainstream cultural standards, although they’ve existed throughout human history Even as we make cultural strides toward a more equitable society, those who are seen as most other and the least assimilated always bear the brunt of the bigotry. This queer vanguard changes with time as progress ebbs and flows.

Toryn Glavin, trans engagement manager at LGBT charity Stonewall, said: “We’re delighted that Sam Smith feels able to speak openly about their gender identity, and their visibility will have a huge impact on many non-binary people.

If the Sam Smith of In The Lonely Hour was a person frustrated by the elusive nature of romance, here was someone with an increasing strength and self-confidence. Sure, the romances since then hadn’t all been perfect, but they’d found a formula for getting over them. Think about what the relationship was… the positives and the negatives… and sit and live with it a bit,” was their advice to those eager to understand what ‘Too Good At Goodbyes’ was about.

Speaking at London’s first ever Trans Pride event , Aisha Brown, 37, welcomed Smith’s announcement, saying: “We definitely need more non-binary people in the public space, being visibly non-binary.

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That dark place has taken Smith to some very exciting, rewarding arenas. At the 2015 Grammy Awards, Smith and their record took four awards: Best New Artist, Best Pop Vocal Album, Record of the Year and Song of the Year (Stay With Me”).

Jake Gallagher, 27, says it is “great” Smith has come out as non-binary, adding: “The more people in the mainstream that come out as trans or non-binary is just going to help, especially someone like Sam, who has got a large platform.

They’re not interested in wallowing any more: as their relationship came to an end they tried to write torch songs, but instead made the sexy bop Promises”. Like the disco musicians in whom they found salvation at Eagle London, they realised pain can be celebrated rather than indulged.

Smith joins a growing number of people who wish to use they and them as pronouns, including Jill Soloway, the Emmy-winning creator of transgender series Transparent, and Billions television series actor Asia Kate Dillon.

It’s something I still struggle with now. I do at times feel alienated from the community still. I fuck up all the time. I say the wrong thing. I don’t know what I’m talking about. I’m trying to figure it out. I’m 26 years old and I’ve been on tour for the past five years. I haven’t learned as much as I should have by my age, but I’m really passionate about the fact I’m not going to hide that I don’t know these things any more. I’m not going to pretend I’m some kind of spokesperson who knows what I’m talking about, because I don’t. I’m asking for help and forgiveness and time for me to learn.

English R&B pop sensation Sam Smith (born 19 May 1992) rose to fame before his first proper release. Smith provided vocals for the electronic duo Disclosure’s extremely successful single Latch” but later came into his own with his critically and commercially acclaimed solo release Lay Me Down”.

Smith expressed excitement with the pronoun change’s reception, in addition to noting that the switch took longer than expected because Smith cares too much about what people think.” The third tweet relayed Smith’s understanding that there will be many mistakes and mis gendering” sic, while the fourth tweet indicated that Smith is at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary” sic.

Sam Smith: It is accidental actually. The Thrill Of It All was a heavy album for me. I’d just become well known for the first time and I was quite traumatised from that first-album experience. And I came back to London for a year and I sat with Jimmy Napes, songwriter and producer and all the people I’d written the first album with and I got back to a safe space. And the second album was safe because of that; I didn’t venture off. But in my personal life I was growing rapidly and after I released the album it felt heavy. The songs felt heavy when I was performing them.

Born in Cambridgeshire, England, Smith studied vocals and songwriting in his teens under the mentorship of jazz vocalist Joanna Eden. His big break came at just 20, when he got the opportunity to collaborate with rising British electronic duo Disclosure on their breakout 2012 single “Latch,” a Top 10 UK hit and ubiquitous presence at clubs around the world. Smith’s unique vocal on the track became one of the most recognizable musical moments of 2013, leading to an appearance on the Naughty Boys’ UK No. 1 “La La La,” the country’s fastest-selling single of the year. Shortly thereafter, Smith made his solo debut with “Lay Me Down” and the chart-topping “Money on My Mind,” the lead singles from his highly anticipated 2014 studio debut In the Lonely Hour.

Smith has since joined the James Bond canon of movie vocalists with his orchestral single “Writing’s on the Wall” for Spectre. Co-written with Jimmy Napes, the song became a No. 1 single in the UK. “Wall” received both a Golden Globe and an Academy Award in 2016, with Smith dedicating his Oscar win to LGBT communities across the globe.


Smith’s debut album, In the Lonely Hour, was released in 2014 and went on to achieve major commercial success. Smith won multiple Grammys in 2015 and dropped a second studio album, The Thrill of It All, in 2017. In January of this year, Sam Smith released Dancing with a Stranger,” a single from an untitled upcoming album. A second single, How Do You Sleep?”, followed in July.

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